Hi Rosie, Empathy from me, but don't despair, when one door closes another one opens. You are not on your own and don't blame yourself, like me you trusted the people who ran the community that you joined and invested in that community. Firstly, now we have both learnt the lesson of putting our eggs in one basket you may wish to look else where. Have a look at a site called Selling beyond
Ebay http://sellingbeyondebay.ning.com the site is run by an American woman called Gail, her story makes mine pale into insignificance. The site although small offers plenty of practical help, advise and encouragement, shortly she is launching some kind of linking site and has asked me to send my logo and photographs of my best selling items, other people are doing similar elsewhere. There is also a fantastic, real and caring Community here who will offer help over and above. I'm in the same boat as you, rich in stock but with a cashflow that has been blown out of the water, it's a bit like a tap being switched off, so get a plumber and switch it on again. I think out of internet you may wish to consider other ways of trading until you get on your feet again, perhaps book fairs are an area to look at and also real time auctions to cull out some excess stock to give you cash. Then direct your inventory at sites such as Ebid where you can find a niche, I have decided on 2 sites at this time and most of my energy will be focused here at Ebid. For your satisfaction over the last 2 weeks conbay's listings have dropped by 3,000,000, they have had a slight recovery but have dropped again, their shares on the stock market have also dropped and have not rallied. I have no illusions it will take time I have had 2 sales and now have 1 bid at the reserve price since rejoining here so I figure that there are people viewing who are prepared to buy. Its interesting that you noticed your sales dropping, I didn't but what I was doing was moving upwards from 100 recurring listing items to 200 ending with 220 I sold on a 10 day cycle so the drop would not have been noticable to me but can you imagine the stock I hold to maintain that type of listing. I left on principal over the address thing, my view is that it is not up to a service provider to police the DSRs it is up to legislative bodies. It's interesting but today I went onto one persons ME page and found her address and telephone No. It's not on in my view. Regarding the Returns Policy, I offer 30 days, you might say this is crazy but I would rather have this than an unhappy customer, there are a lot of good people out there and if I do get a 'wrong un' I will simply blackball them and give a warning to other seller through feedback I will have the goods and they will have paid the return postage (See my returns policy). I now visit the conbay forums regularly to stick it to them, particularly the sycophants and the worse ones, those without IDs who instantly browbeat and bully any one with an objection to conbay, it's good sport and I wish more would take it up, this does help aleviate the feeling of immense wrong that I feel and also gets rid of the 'running around like a headless chicken syndrome'. Enough of me and back to your predicament, look at it this way Rosie, if you were just starting on the internet how much stock would you have and how much experience? If you look at it that way you have riches indeed. Your fees will now be much lower, your income tax will reflect a quiet period and your expenditure on stock will be naturally controlled (Stock Control). You havn't failed Rosie you have been reborn, up and at 'em, get listing and linking and think yourself lucky that you are no longer part of the pretend Amazon which will eventually make a pretty boring site indeed.
Welcome to Ebid, good luck and fortune to you
Les Smith